It’s a futile war get out while you can!!!!

 

Yes, it is true, as confirmed by the "social constructs" of modern human

civilization and "believed facts" of modern medical science, the

Battle of the Sexes has been won for quite some time by WOMAN.

Yet the battles rage on, as MAN does not want to admit defeat.

 

Before diving into the evidence and proof to the end of the war, lets first

examine that statement.

 

Of the phrase "modern human civilization" must be clarified that I am

referring to civilized countries of the modern world with common dating

practices.  Excluding all countries still in the religious upheavals of what I

consider to be ancient beliefs and social structures regarding

Women.  It is, from here on in, that modern humanity be recognized within

the context of democratic societies wherein dating and courtship are

considered normal life occurrences.

 

This clarification, in turn, demands also the further explanation to the phrases

"believed facts" and "social constructs".

 

Modern medical science, as with all sciences, are limited by human hypothesis

and theory.  It is considered that once a scientific theory has been proven and believed

to be real and true over a long period of time by the masses it becomes fact.  However

I do not subscribe to this idea of fact.  The grand universe is so vast and humanity is

so feeble with such a short lifetime in comparison it is arrogant of us to presume we can

establish scientific fact.  Our young species is many centuries away from the point at

which we can fathom the truths of our universe, let alone proclaim we know beyond a

shadow of a doubt what the nature of any one thing really is.  All we know is that man

until now has come up with ideas and ways of study that help us better understand

ourselves and the world around us within a large margin of error.  It is this margin of

error that, though steadily decreasing, limits us from knowing the truth behind the

elements that comprise our existence.  Bearing this in mind, without arrogance, one

can only say one believes in a truth or fact, hence "believed fact".

 

Society as we know it under the vast umbrella of democracy and capitalism I

believe has evolved to a comfortable place.  That is to say there is a basic plan of life

within our current civilization that we hold to and develop.  Many have called it the

twenty-five year plan.  For twenty-five years we educate ourselves in efforts to have a

rewarding career for the next twenty-five years during which we take a wife and raise

a family until we retire to hopefully live a quit relaxing twenty-five years.  Through each

of these twenty-five year periods one is developed according to the constructs of

behavior, beliefs and knowledge that ones parents and surroundings or society presents

-         hence "social constructs".  These constructs are continually evolving with the

changes of each individual from generation to generation.  By way of history we can

see the changes and patterns.  I appeal to the reader to keep this at the forefront of your

mind as this discussion progresses.

 

With the definitions clear and concise I can now tell you the story behind the

end to a very long and treacherous wars now know as the Battle of the Sexes.  Medical

science has progressed for more than one hundred years now researching and testing to

find the differences between genders.  Numerous studies by many independent scientists

have concluded that woman is biologically and neurologically superior to man with the

exception of a very small percentage opposing.  Let me put this more into perspective. 

98% of all studies conclude that woman is superior to man in more than one way.  Not to

say that man does not clearly have some advantages but the scientific difference between

gender can be characterized by 70 - 30, where 70 is woman and 30 is man.

 

Yet we can not only consider the scientific difference as there is more that

encompasses humanity than mind and body.  There is spirituality.  When spirituality

is the subject I must refer to my essay entitled "The Religion Issue:".  Please

click here if you have not already read it.  There is a distinction that must be

made between the intellectual constructs of beliefs through religion and the actual

spirit of a human.  My conception of the human spirit as supported by believed fact

is the electricity or energy that flows through our natural bodies. The eastern world

calls it Qi or Chi whereas we might call it the life force or soul.  There is believed

to be many different forms of this, still for this study we will consider them all

unified.  Our intellect or mind being nothing more than electrical impulses is

the control center for the spirit.  Very little, and I must emphasize this, VERY LITTLE

is known of the human mind and therefore it is not possible to examine the spiritual

gender difference by means of science.  Thus, as with many principles through life,

we turn to history.  A millennia of recorded social constructs exist that deal specifically

with the spirit and how it is different in man and woman.  Through the past six years

I have conducted exhaustive research gathering clues as to how the spirit works in man

and in woman.  By this it has become clearly evident that the spirit of a woman is

obvious and very influential to both herself and man in the forms of empathy, compassion,

sensitivity, etc. etc.  Consequently initially stronger, however through out all of history there

 has been a select portion of the male gender that has soo exercised the spirit it has

advanced beyond the strength of the female spirit.  Still as women have for so many centuries

been under subjection to men there is little evidence of woman with the same opportunity. 

It is my contingency that woman would surpass the capabilities of the male spirit.  In fact in

ancient history there is record of women with spirits so powerful they were regarded as

supernatural or goddesses.

 

The sum of the preceding is such that woman is mentally, physically and spiritually

superior to man.  Three major wars in the grand Battle of the Sexes that man has lost.

Yet it is not by these things alone that we live.  Both genders are organized into

a complex civilization.  Civilizations that have been developed over many centuries

putting woman into subjection.  Could it be humanity developed this way out of fear

of domination by woman?  Perhaps, but nevertheless, these many centuries of subjection

and male domination have concluded in the silent uprising of female control behind the

scenes.  There is so much truth to the old adage "behind every good man is a woman".

While researching the gender difference in spirit I could not ignore the constant

proof of women allowing men the illusion of control.  Take for instance the history of

marriages.  Modern terms come to mind such as "whipped" or "on a short leash".

As women assert themselves it becomes more apparent every day where the control lies.

The evolution of woman has begun and there is no stopping it.  Soon women all over the

world will realize they're superiority and put men into subjection.

 

How did this happen?  When did it start?  Social constructs developed that women

are attentive to.  Watching and memorizing the behavior of the majority of men it is

eventually easy to predict and plan for their actions.  With this subtle influences

are presented to every action resulting in control.  What then are these social constructs?

Humanity, while becoming comfortable with democracy and capitalism, has become lazy

in morals and concepts of self.  The new millennium brought the fourth generation of increased

divorce and fatherless children.  Each generation of children without fathers to instill the concepts

of dignity and honor have resulted in both women and men demoralized.  These same men and

women pass to their offspring a diminished sense of dignity and honor.  This diminished sense

now four generations old has come to the point of total ignorance to these principles. 

Accordingly the pattern of demoralized behavior is prevalent to a greater extent in men, allowing

 women to predict and plan for future behavior.  These predictions, forming a repeated pattern,

became commonly know among the female gender creating a feminine social construct. 

The feminine social construct also progressing over four generations has created an automatic

 assumption of man's actions.

 

Lets look at this with a battle analogy.  If your enemy already knows your actions there is

no way you can win the battle.  It is futile.  Now we recap a bit.  Woman, mentally,

physically, spiritually, morally, and socially superior with a gender based social construct

able to predict man's actions.  Who is the obvious looser?  But women still desire men

and will lead them through the typical patterns allowing them some happiness and using

them to benefit the greater good. Because, after all, the survival of our species depends

on those best suited for the greater good.

 

But (there is always a but) there is a fault also on women.  The majority of women have

not yet developed their superior powers or tuned into the feminine social construct and therefore

have also become subject to the demoralization of society.  Finding themselves in a loop of

undignified and dishonorable men.  I implore all women, please develop your powers and do

not continue to become subject to the demoralization of society as it results in more fatherless

children without the concepts of dignity and honor.  Only women have the power to stop the

downward spiral generation after generation.

 

Flipping the coin, lets say what if??

 

What if a man existed that is not demoralized and exercises his spirit toward great

inner and outer strength, who studies hard to continually expand his intellect, who is passionate

empathetic, sensitive and well balanced.  What would happen to this man under the current social

constructs as he subjects himself to the feminine social construct out of pure desire?  Even

though he will act outside of the predicted pattern the feminine social construct will nullify the

actions before executed as they are presuming simply because he is man they know what the

results will be.  This rare and unique man is never given the chance to act on his heart. 

Again looking to history, human nature suggests this will cause the unique man to harden his

 heart.  Likewise, a similar process occurs to women with undeveloped powers causing her

heart to harden.  Unfortunately the current trend reveals to us that it is only after many failed

 relationships and marriages that either gender reaches a point of recognition to the needed

development of ones powers.

 

Say for instance one of these rare and unique men had the desire for a woman of

equally unique qualities.  This sounds like a good match, yet this means she would have full

awareness of her powers and of the feminine social constructs never allowing him to act on his

heart but only in subjection to her subtle control.  He should not be controlled and logically he

should choose not to meddle in the futile battle of the sexes that rages on needlessly.  A

women, truly enlightened could conceive of an equal balance with man acting always in total

unity.  It is unfortunate humanity has not reached such a point and due to current social

contructs, perhaps will not for many generations.  Hence that unique man should give up the

desire and focus on ways to support the greater good as just a feeble man.